Things

1. Just because I have feelings of guilt does not mean I must act on them.  I have done absolutely nothing wrong but call out some ignorance and have ousted those people from my life.  I have in the past given into these feelings and have regretted it.  Sometimes you must go through discomfort to protect yourself.  That is called boundaries.

2.  I am not responsible for other people's feelings or actions. If someone makes me feel uncomfortable, I have the right to tell them to leave me alone and to take actions to protect myself from them.

3.  I am not responsible for anyone but myself.  I do not owe just anyone my time and energy.  It is my own to do what I wish.  That person needs to be someone that worthy of of it.  Whatever I deal that to be.

4.  I can't be everything to everyone and nor should I be.

5.  No to homophobes, people who use the word "reverse racism" and believe it, transphobes, antifeminists, anti black-brown-muslim-immigrant, anyone who says Social Justice Warrior as a joke.  No, I cannot with you.  I'm not going to argue.  Go away.  Find friends who like the same ignorant things.

6.  People who just want to be obnoxious and just literally do not like anybody no matter your race sexuality etc.  Im a people so fuck off.  Go back to your lonely cave.  I don't care

7.  I'm down with non monogamy as long as it's coming from a place of genuine interest in other people.  As long as you have a healthy view of sex and your own sexuality and it isn't just an unhealthy coping mechanism.  As long as you care about your own health and everyone else's and practice safe sex.  And as long as have sex isn't the primary reason why you are non monogamous.  I totally believe in making connections with as many people as possible on a mind and heart level.  We all need to be able to call on someone when needed.  And honestly all this that I have listed is what I am about.  But I can go either way as long as my emotional and sexual needs are met.